Please forgive me for taking so long to write this latest
post. Life sometimes takes
over.
Today I want to discuss the Circle of Leadership concerning
(for lack of better terms) bragging.
I was asked to talk about how great leaders are those who brag about
their people, not themselves. I agree
entirely, and have spent some time now thinking about this very thing, even
using this as a discussion point with a friend of mine who has been thrust into
a position of leadership. He
sometimes too humbly discovers he is in a leadership position, and quite often
doesn’t understand how he got there.
So, I spent some time explaining this phenomenon to him.
I believe in two things. 1. People should always work hard to make their boss look
good. 2. Leaders should always work hard to make their people look good.
Let’s take a look at the first truth: if people work hard, their boss looks
good to management. From then, any accolade he/she gets is due to their
employees. This is known by
management. The boss gets accolades
as a leader, but management realizes they wouldn’t be where they are success-wise
without the hard work of their people.
As a result, if the boss looks good, so do the employees.
Now, the second truth:
if a leader praises their employees to the management, the employees
will receive better evaluations—thus leading to promotions and awards. If their employees receive praise for
their work, they will work harder for their leader.
Now, combine the two and you get the Circle of
Leadership. Leaders brag about how
good their employees are and that it is truly their work that leads to team
success—those employees work because they are happy and feel appreciated. As the team works harder, more success
will rain on the team, and the leader gets praise for leading such a successful
group. As this circle continues,
it becomes a perpetual motion machine—the output is the input. Even as an
employee leaves the circle due to promotion, another will take that place and
work hard just because of the reputation. The same is true if a leader leaves the circle. From within, an employee who has seen the benefits of this leadership style will talk over with the same ideals. The loss is minimal to the movement,
but its impact is huge on the organization as you grow great employees.
This is obviously the positive. The negative has as significant, if not even a bigger impact
on the organization. If a leader
feels he or she needs to brag about him or herself and take all the credit for
work accomplished, then no one will enjoy working for them. The end result is a fractured group
because of one person. So while
one person is not the success of a company, one person can easily become the
failure of a company. To those of
you who lead feeling you need to take all the credit, STOP! In this position of
leadership, you feel this will show your success. In fact, you have isolated
yourself and you will fail. Stop
this habit now; it is unhealthy to you and to your team.
So, as I discussed this with my friend, I had hoped to point
out to him that he doesn’t see his success because he has been busy pointing
out the successes of his people.
He was elevated because he elevated others. Everyone wants him as their leader and everyone wants to work
hard for him. He is a great
example as to why the circle works.
As always, please share with others. I appreciate any and all input.
Well said Joe. My objective as the leader of my men was and is to make them shine. I have plenty of accolades of my own thanks to the leaders I have worked for. On the other side I have worked for more than one leader that has run the circle of leadership in reverse. That breaks the spirit of those people that work for them.
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